Saturday, March 12, 2011

How to Begin

To Annie

Sometimes we spill the milk
and it looks like the moon.

How it’s all over the place, how
my dad yelled so much in kitchens

but still taught me how to chop
peppers, digging out the seeds

like a pumpkin. Add more sugar,
but never tell, he said. Sweet

spaghetti sauce, our specialty.
The secret is always to be tender,

to let yourself crumple in the water—
unfit levee because love was always

meant to knock us over every time.
These horizontal days, we can only

find someone warm and begin
to give everything up again:

the ties I saved after my dad’s
funeral, the newspaper clipping

of the man I loved face down
under a bottle of perfume,

bell peppers I carried home
from the market, carved out

and chambered like a heart.
If you can hold them—if you

can make something sweet
of them without cutting out

the bitter parts—you can keep
all of it, nested in your arms.

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